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Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Teaching our Child RESPECT.



How To Teach Your Kids Respect


Wondering how to teach your kids respect? We've got the three strategies you need to raise a considerate kid.

Define Respect. Ensure that your kids know that their tone of voice, body language, and facial expressions can also be disrespectful. Discourage these signs of disrespect the same as you would inappropriate language and remarks. Share about the Filipino culture of saying PO and OPO and the MANO PO.

Provide Good Examples. You and mom are the most important examples, but your children's friends also have a great impact. Steer your children toward friendships with children who exhibit respectful behavior. Point out respectful, considerate behavior in others that they admire.

Look for Teachable Moments. When your child is disrespectful, follow through with discipline - you need to correct the behavior - but take the opportunity to explain to your child why her actions were disrespectful. Ask her how she thinks she could act differently next time. And, don't forget to reward good, respectful behavior with a kind word and a nod of approval.

Thursday, August 26, 2010

5 Questions to ask your kids everyday.


Five Questions To Ask Your Kids Every Day

Connecting with your kids doesn't have to be complicated. With just five questions a day you can build a stronger relationship with your kids.

1. What Is The Most Important Thing That Happened Today? This is a great way to get more than a yes or no answer when you ask about your child's life and day.

2. How Are You And Your Friends Getting Along? You'll get to know your child's social circle and may get a heads up on drama that could be brewing and may cause some later problems.

3. What Is Something I Should Know About You? This question is great for growing any relationship - and you're guaranteed to learn something surprising. Just be prepared to have an answer, too!

4. What Should We Celebrate Today? Make it a goal to have fun with your kids and bring joy into your family's life on a regular basis. It can be as simple as popsicles on the back porch, a good grade on a quiz, or your favorite show being on TV. Savor the little things together.

5. Do You Know That I Love You? You can never say this too much. Always tell your kids you love them - and for who they are, not just for what they do.

Friday, August 13, 2010

Take time to be a dad today.



Take every time to be a Dad today. Little things counts.

The smallest moments can have the biggest impact in your childs LIFE



The smallest moments can have the biggest impact in your childs LIFE. Be creative, be funny, be lively and be a daddy in teaching your child.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

6 Things you should know about your 3 years old.




Watching a child grow from a tiny newborn into a curious toddler is an amazing experience, and teaching toddlers the many skills they need to learn is a rewarding job. By the time a child becomes a toddler they are ready to explore the world around them and are beginning to grasp basic verbal, physical, and social skills. Three year olds have very different needs than younger toddlers and strengthen the skills that they have learned since birth.

There are some common traits that most three year olds share although every child is different and develops at their own pace. If your child is soon to be three, here are six things you should know about your three year old.

Many children, especially boys, aren't ready for potty training until they're three. Many parents expect their children to be potty trained by three years old but many children aren't ready to begin the process until age three, and this is perfectly normal.

Three year olds are learning new words every day and are usually talking in 3-5 word sentences. Because they are learning so many new words it is normal to stumble over words but this is not stuttering and usually does not indicate a problem.

Some parents of toddlers are inclined to talk down to their child using overly simplified words or "baby talk." However, the best way to help your three year old develop proper speech is to talk with them using regular language with plenty of descriptive words.

Most three year olds enjoy imitating people and animals, especially those they are around on a daily basis. Three year olds will mimic what they see during play and will begin to emulate people that are close to them.

By age three children begin to develop the social skills necessary to play cooperatively with other children. Three year olds begin to share, take turns, and can tolerate delayed gratification, most of the time.

Three year olds also start to develop vivid imaginations and will often engage in imaginative play. They enjoy making up stories, pretending, and acting out their favorite books, stories, and TV shows.

Three year olds are still developing many important skills as they learn about the world around them. Teaching toddlers skills such as using the potty, how to play cooperatively, and the correct use of language become easier for three year olds who have developed the attention span and understanding needed for these tasks.

A Fathers Love



Despite all the weakness a Father could have, A Fathers Love for her Daughter will always be there, no matter what happens.

Thursday, August 5, 2010

the promise of unconditional care.




As a father it will always be a journey to see our daughter grows and learn new things. But as we go along, we need to keep telling ourselves that there will come a time that our daughter will make mistakes. How should we respond if our daughter ask forgiveness to us? always be remembered of the promise of our unconditional care and love. Never fail to hug your child.

To a child LOVE is spelled as TIME.



To a child LOVE is spelled TIME.Truly as a father we may be very busy of the many things that we do and we tend to forget time with our children. There are times whenever i arrived home, Noelle would ask me to read a book for her only to realize that the book was already read to her for many times already. Then i come to realize that its not about the book, its the time and feeling of me being with her that counts to her the most.

Being a parent is a sacrifice.



How much are we willing to sacrifice for our child?

To love unconditionally.



As Father i realized that this is not an easy task. But with GOD and with his great example i know i can overcome and be successful. I want to be there always for my child, to tell her every night that Daddy loves her and that i would be there for her no matter what happens.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

To all fathers...learn the art of SUPRISING your child.



Be the best suprise giver to your child. And be amazed.

As parents, make your influence POSITIVE.



Children See. Children Do. As parents we have the responsibility to model positive, acceptable, morally upright behaviors. Our children does what we do.

Time is the only thing that we dont have control of.



TIME is of essence. I feel so guilty whenever i dont have the quality time with my Daughter.I believe that if i dont change ill end up regretting and be like the father in this video.

The best ever gift that a Father could give to her daughter is LOVE.



The best gift that a Father can give to her daughter is LOVE. There are times that i cant afford to give Noelle things that she liked for its too expensive or i cant afford it. But everyday, i make sure she feels my love for her.

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Developmental Milestones of 3 year old


Three-year-olds love to explore words and language. They enjoy making up stories. Their favorite literary characters are often animals with human traits, such as rabbit or mickey mouse.

During the third year of life, children enjoy expressing their new found sense of humor. Silly word games and imaginative tales are just a few of the ways that three-year-olds amuse themselves!

Very active, they can be found observing and exploring the world around them. Children this age perfect their motor skills by spending endless hours climbing the jungle gym or going down the same slide. They enjoy songs that can be accompanied by whole-body rhythmic movements.

The three-year-old is eager to please. It's a wonderful time to establish excellent lifelong habits, if parents have the patience!

During the third year of life a child typically:

* May sleep 10 to 12 hours at night
* Hops on one foot
* Walks a line
* Walks on tiptoes for a few steps
* Brushes teeth, washes hands, retrieves own drink
* Puts on shoes (no laces)
* Completes a six-piece puzzle
* Draws simple shapes
* Enjoys helping with household tasks
* Follows simple directions
* Plays spontaneously with two or three children
* Identifies some common colors
* Counts to three
* Enjoys "pretend" games such as playing house
* Wets the bed at night occasionally
* Uses the toilet often and may need help (boys may not be toilet trained until later this year)
* Feeds self completely using a fork and spoon and can butter bread with a knife.
* Speaks in three- to five-word sentences

Wednesday, July 28, 2010



Everyday Steps to Reading and Writing

Did you know that children begin their path to reading as babies when they hear and respond to the sound of a human voice? Literacy, the ability to comprehend and communicate through reading and writing, begins with understanding the sounds in language. Listening, talking, reading, and writing are all parts of early literacy learning—and they’re all connected.

It’s important for young children to hear and understand spoken language, become aware of the different language sounds, and start learning about print—letters and words. Preschoolers need writing to help them learn about reading and reading to help them learn about writing, but they need to talk and listen before learning about both!


Young children learn about literacy through everyday things at home. It’s especially important for families to encourage a love of reading and to demonstrate the power of writing to communicate ideas. When you guide your child’s hands and eyes to words on a page, she learns that marks have meaning. When you listen as she “reads” her scribbles, you give meaning to her own marks.

How else can you encourage your child to love reading, writing, and oral language so much that she begs for a bedtime story? The following strategies are a great start.

Ways to encourage literacy

In any home, there are countless ways to encourage a child’s love of reading, writing, speaking, and listening. Here are 10 simple ideas for highlighting literacy in your everyday routine.

Talk and listen
Engage your child in meaningful, thought-provoking conversation. While you listen and respond to what he has to say,
Introduce new words, perhaps colander or automobile. Expand on what he says, offering more description and using more mature language (Your child: “It runned out.” You: “Your marker ran out of ink!”) Challenge him to imagine, remember, and think about things he sees and hears around him.Ask him to tell you about the best thing that happened that day

Read aloud together

Perhaps the most important thing you can do to help your child build reading and writing skills is to read aloud with her. To make the most of this time together,
Read aloud with her at least once every day
Read favorites again and again
Talk with her about the story before, during, and after reading
Ask her teacher what kinds of books and authors she likes best at school
Ask a librarian to suggest some diverse and age-appropriate children’s books, poetry collections, and songs
Share a variety of literature (stories, poems, and informational books) over time
Suggest activities that go with the books you read (“In this book, Yoko brought sushi to school for lunch. Would you like to make a special food for lunch?”)

Explore the sounds of language


Children love to play with sounds and words. Invite them to play with sounds and words and to think about spoken language itself. Make up games. Using stories, poems, and songs, or your own imagination, play with the following:
rhymes—Words that end with the same sound (“See you later, alligator.” “Hey, what other words sound like splat?” [mat, flat, cat])
alliteration—Words that begin with the same sound (“The red car raced to the restaurant.”)
sound matching—Matching specific sounds (“Listen to the word duck. Duck starts with the /d/ sound. What other words start with the same sound as duck?”)
sound/letter connections―Exploring letters found in meaningful words such as children’s names (“Look, Jennifer and Jamal’s names both start with J.”)

Offer alphabet activities

Over time, playing with items like the following can help your child recognize the letters of the alphabet:
ABC books
magnetic letters
alphabet blocks and puzzles
alphabet charts

Support budding readers and writers as they test their new skills

Your child needs time and space to explore books and print on his own or with friends. You can
Create a cozy book nook somewhere in your home and stock it with lots of good books
Reread favorite books, especially ones that invite your child to chime in (predictable books)
Fill your home with meaningful print, such as a daily schedule, helper charts, labels to identify things, and reminders (“Pump the soap one time”)
Encourage print in play (for example, provide or help your child create menus for a pretend restaurant)

Offer books throughout your home and even outdoors

Be sure to provide a wide variety of styles and topics:
information books, like Byron Barton’s Airport, which introduce new vocabulary and concepts
books, songs, and poems with strong rhymes, such as Raffi’s Down by the Bay
stories with strong narrative plots, such as Mercer Mayer’s There’s an Alligator under My Bed
books in your home language and in English
books that reflect your culture and life experiences
classics and new literature
books with beautiful, inspiring illustrations

Support budding writers with lots of materials

Children need easy access to materials so they can build their early writing skills through scribble writing, groupings of random letters, and their own unique spelling of words. Offer your child
a writing basket stocked with pens, pencils, markers, paper, envelopes, and book-making materials
demonstrations of writing (for example, write down your child’s description of her drawing)
opportunities for meaningful writing (labels or explanations for artwork, block constructions, and other creations)
writing materials to use in play (for example, pencils and notepads to write prescriptions, take orders, or make grocery lists)

Explain how books and print work

While introducing and reading books or other texts, help your child learn how print works:
Point to words as you read them
Note the differences between pictures and print
Show how books in English are read from left to right, top to bottom
Talk about the different parts of books, like the cover and the title page
Encourage him to join in with repeated lines when reading his favorite stories

Build a home book collection

When children have books at home they are more likely to read for fun and to learn new things. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to develop a home library for your child. For example,
Yard sales are terrific places to find very inexpensive children’s books—sometimes for as little as 25 cents each
Secondhand stores offer children’s books, often organized in a special section
Relatives and friends often ask what to get a child as a birthday or holiday gift, so suggest a book. They might also be eager to pass on books their children have outgrown
Libraries are places to borrow books, but many also sell used books; on your next visit, ask a librarian if the library has used children’s books for sale or will have in the future
Used-book stores usually have a section for children’s books
Online sellers offer used or new copies of children’s books (Go to a site such as Amazon.com or Half.com and search for a book title. You will be linked to sellers who typically charge much less than the cover price. Also try Craigslist and local Listservs where families list books and other things their children have outgrown.)

Early childhood programs and elementary schools often have book fairs to sell used or new books; call your local school and ask if a sale is planned

This article is adapted from K.A. Roskos, J.F. Christie, and D.J. Richgels, “The Essentials of Early Literacy Instruction,” Young Children 58 (March 2003): 52–60.